What would you say the correct ettiquette is when hurting opponants when sparring. Since starting TKD I have made good friends within the club, there are some of us, who despie TKD being semi contact, do go in with both barrells blazing when sparring each other, this is fine with opponants who enjoy the contact However, I have on occassion hurt sparring partners who are smaller or lower grades with exessive contact after sparring hard with previous opponants. I find myself apollagizing and sometimes go home feeling like shit, I am not, nor do I want the reputation as a bully, I realise its about control and its something I constanly try to improve. How much should I apolagise in the meantime and is there any game plan I can adopt to reduce casualties.